My takeaway from this article was the importance of taking charge of your own (or your husband’s) medical treatment.
Joel elected to have a hip replacement. He counted on it to improve his quality of life.
Instead, a nick from the retractor caused a life-threatening bleed that set off a cascade of catastrophes. Within a few hours, he went from a healthy, active, 63-year-old to an unconscious, life-support-dependent ICU patient. Kidney failure followed, plus an obstructed colon and compartment syndrome — all complications of what should have been a routine procedure.
To make matters worse, the doctor who fucked up his hip replacement was in charge of fixing the mistake. Joel instead embarked on a months-long hospitalization with no guaranteed survival….
Just minutes before, a nurse had told me one doctor advocated amputating Joel’s leg; the other disagreed. The argument continued.
Why only two doctors instead of a larger team? I wondered. Why did they not ask my opinion? Who would make the ultimate decision?
That’s when a rabbi came to see me. “You can request a different hospital,” she told me calmly. “You could have your husband transferred.”
Those six words seemed so obvious…
Now, before every doctor appointment, I compose a list of questions, complaints and possible treatments. When a doctor pooh-poohs a test, I challenge their opinion. When a nurse minimizes a symptom, I repeat my concern. When a result goes unnoticed, I call attention to it. And my advocacy goes beyond medicine. When I appeared in court on a probate issue, I wrote a script for my lawyer with points to make to the judge.
1,300 words: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/botched-hip-replacement-doctors-hospital-transfer-patient-advocacy_n_6977b017e4b01cc3c1ad5e0a.
And good news from Fix the News:
Child mortality down 60% in two generations, as low-cost tools save millions. Since 1990, global under-five deaths have fallen from 13 million to 4.9 million a year, one of the largest public health gains in human history. Vaccines, oral rehydration, bed nets and safer births have been at the heart of this, with deaths from diarrhoea down 75% and malaria by 63%. Although progress has slowed in the last decade, the tools to prevent most remaining deaths exist. The gap is now political will rather than innovation. UNICEF
And an image from my collection:






